Communication Skills that will Increase Your intimacy


  1. Look for the good in your partner and give him/her a compliment.
  2. Praise your partner as much as possible.
  3. Take time to listen to each other.
  4. Listen to understand - not to judge.
  5. Use active listening, which involves summarizing your partner's comments before you share your reactions or feelings.
  6. Be assertive. Share your feelings by using "I" statements (i.e. I feel.... or I think....)
  7. When issues arise, avoding blaming each other and seek solutions.
  8. If problems persis, seek counseling before they become more serious. Doing so will make it easier to find soutions.
  9. Give your relationship the same priority and attention you gave it when you were dating.